Are you faking a relationship because you are scared of being alone? This is a no win situation for all involved. This seems to stem from something or someone in your past that has cause you to believe you do not deserve the best or true happiness. So you settle, and pretend your relationship is fine! The bigger question is..."is being alone so bad?"
I remember when my close friends were in relationships and I was just in the dating scene. I can honestly say, I was never envious or jealous of them. Why? Well, because I was happy with me. I loved just being with me. I enjoyed learning new things on my own and dating taught me what I liked and disliked in a partner. I would rather be alone then to be in a fake relationship!
Love Rule #1: Before you can love anyone you have to learn to love yourself first!
Life Rule # 1: Fear can cause you to miss out on a great thing!
Signing off,
Lyles on Love
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