One of my favorite salsa songs is called "Love me, Appreciate me". I love salsa music because it is so honest. The songs tell you exactly what the artist is feeling. I wish we can express our feelings in our relationships in the same way. As women, we tend to hold back our true feelings. We drop hints to our mates hoping they will get the big picture, but they never do...do they! This is mostly due to our fear of disappointment, but men are a simple. Men do not look for clues on how you feel, so if you pretending to be happy...then happy you are! If you want to go out to eat and you say its okay to stay home ... well, your are staying home. Communication is a big part of a happy and healthy relationship, so start saying what you feel. When you express your true feelings, you'll get what you want, so enjoy!
Signing Off,
Lyles on Love
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Love is hard, Talking is harder. Not talking is my shell. How can I break my shell when the disappointment lingers out there waiting for some unexpected soul (me) to ruin it all. Love=hard, talking=harder, disappointment=easy.
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