Hey Luv bugs! My blog posts talks a lot about dating issues for the single gal but this one is dedicated to our married ladies. Well, let's begin! I'll start by saying, I knew I wanted to marry my husband within the first month of dating him. The reason was simple, he was the opposite of all the guys I dated before him. When I met my husband, I was on a dating vacation. I was not hating men, but I needed sometime to elevate, who I was, what I wanted for myself, and what I NEEDED from a relationship. I stress NEEDED because sometimes our WANTs are not what we need.
I decided if I wanted things to be different in my next relationship my criteria for a mate would need to change. In addition, the woman I pictured myself to be needed some adjustments. You see, you can not demand something from someone else if you do not hold yourself to the same standards. So, my husband met me at the right time. I was ready for change, I knew what I wanted, needed and settling was not an option! I was ready for love.
In relationships, there will be happy days, sad days, ups and down and many silent moments. Relationships are never perfect. They require care and maintenance throughout its cycle. So, ladies, when times are rough, ask yourself , Why did I Get Married? and hopefully it will bring a smile.
Signing Off,
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